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Woman Trespassed On My Yard To Demand I Stop Mowing And Critiqued My Clothes
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Woman Trespassed On My Yard To Demand I Stop Mowing And Critiqued My Clothes

Yesterday I was cutting my grass around 3 PM. I have a corner property and a double lot so it takes about 40 minutes. I was well over halfway done when a group of parents showed up to wait for the school bus. For some context - they stand in my yard as there is no sidewalk, as they have for years without asking. I really don’t care if they do this, it makes no difference to me as long as they don’t leave any litter behind. I had my headphones in and was working on a different part of the grass when a woman tapped on my shoulder and asked if I would stop cutting my grass, as she was waiting for the bus and wanted to get a video of her child getting off the bus since it was the first day of school. I asked what time it comes and she said in 5-10 minutes. At that point I told her I would keep an eye out for the bus, and stop when I saw it so that there wouldn’t be a lawn mower in the background of her video. She then proceeded to *tell* me that I needed to stop until after the bus got there, as the lawn mower is too loud, and her and the other parents were trying to talk. I told her politely that I had to get this done as I needed to get dinner started for my family, and I was working away from them so it’ll get quieter. She got very angry and told me that I had no right to make this much noise, and that she was calling in a noise complaint about me. She also told me I should “dress more modest when the whole neighborhood can see me”. It was 27 degrees (Celsius) and I was wearing a tank top and shorts. At that point I told her that she was being unreasonable, and that if it was that much of a nuisance, her and her friends could wait somewhere else, and continued cutting my grass until I saw the bus pull onto my street, when I shut off the lawn mower. So AITA for continuing to cut my grass? TL;DR: woman waiting for school bus on my property wanted me to shut off my lawnmower because it was too loud for her to talk with other parents.

Clara Jensen
I Heard My Neighbors Brutally Berating Their Kids So I Called Child Services and They Disappeared
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I Heard My Neighbors Brutally Berating Their Kids So I Called Child Services and They Disappeared

I (32F) live in a quiet suburban neighborhood, and overall, things are pretty peaceful. Most of my neighbors are nice enough, but I don’t really know anyone all that well. One family that lives next door has two young kids Max (12) and Lily (10) and their parents seem like regular folks. I’ve talked to them a few times, but we’re not exactly close. Last week, though, something happened that I can’t get out of my head, and now I’m questioning if I did the right thing. It was a Saturday afternoon, and I was in my backyard doing some gardening when I heard loud yelling coming from next door. At first, I thought it was just one of those normal arguments you hear sometimes, you know? Maybe a parent telling the kids to clean up or something like that. But then I heard something that stopped me cold Max, the older boy, started crying out, and it wasn’t just a normal cry. It sounded like real distress. I couldn’t make out every word, but I could hear the mom yelling at him. She was calling him "stupid" and "worthless" because he hadn’t finished his lunch. She kept telling him he was "useless" and "couldn’t do anything right." I thought maybe she was just having a bad moment, but then I heard her scream, "Why are you so dumb?!" I could feel my heart racing. It sounded so harsh, like she wasn’t just frustrated with him, but genuinely angry. Then, I heard the dad’s voice he was yelling at Lily, the little girl. He was calling her "a disappointment" and telling her she would "never be anything." I couldn’t make out everything, but it was so cruel, and honestly, it broke my heart. I could hear them both crying, and it just didn’t sit right with me. As much as I tried to shake it off, I couldn’t ignore how scared they sounded. And then… I heard a loud thud, like something hitting the wall or maybe the floor, followed by Max screaming in pain. It wasn’t a regular "ouch" or anything like that. It sounded like a real reaction to something that hurt. I don’t know what happened after that, but I knew at that moment that I couldn’t just let it go. I called child services immediately. I didn’t know what else to do, and honestly, I was terrified for those kids. I wasn’t going to go over there, especially not without knowing what could happen. I told them everything I heard about the verbal abuse, the way they were talking to the kids, and the thud I’d heard. I know it wasn’t much, but it was all I had. They said they’d look into it, but obviously, they didn’t give me any details. A few days later, the family moved out. I don’t know if it was connected to the report or if it was just a coincidence, but I haven’t seen them since. And I can’t help but wonder if I did the right thing. I didn’t want to get anyone in trouble or make things worse, but at the same time, I couldn’t just ignore it. Some of my neighbors have been asking questions about why I called child services. A few have thanked me, saying that they’ve suspected something was off but didn’t know how to handle it. But others have been a little more judgmental, saying I overreacted and that it wasn’t my business. I’m second-guessing myself now. Did I overstep? Should I have tried talking to them first before calling anyone? I honestly don’t know. I just wanted to help those kids, but now I’m wondering if I did more harm than good. So, AITA for reporting my neighbors? I’m just hoping I did the right thing, but I feel really conflicted about it all.

Jonas Bergström
Redditor Kicks Out Sister For Berating Her Husband About Keeping A Photo Of His Late Ex-Wife In Their Home
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Redditor Kicks Out Sister For Berating Her Husband About Keeping A Photo Of His Late Ex-Wife In Their Home

I recently kicked my sister out of our home for the way she reacted to a photo of my husband & his first wife. I met him a few months after she died in a car accident, got married 2 years after that. We've been together 6 years. He was devastated when she died. I told him I never expected to "replace" her in any way & considered myself another chapter in his life. I was warmly accepted into the family and his circle of friends. My sister recently she fell on hard times - lost her job, apartment, and so on. We took her in. My husband has always had a home office. My sister was poking around the house when he was out, and discovered a photo of him & his first wife among the framed pictures he has. It's not their wedding photo or anything, just a typical cute couple photo. It's the only printed photo of her in the house, taken a few months before her accident. They didn't have kids, so pics are all he has. There are a lot more photos of us. I was reading on the couch when my sister came stomping into the room, holding the framed photo. She angrily asked "Why do you let him keep a photo of his ex in your house?" I replied: "First, it's our house, & second she's not an ex. She died in an accident and was his wife for 8 years. She was a huge part of his life. He keeps that one photo out." She replied "An ex is anyone you've slept with who's not in the picture anymore." Me: "No, that's not how it works. She *died*." Sis: "Doesn't matter. So what if she got pasted by a truck, an ex is an ex. You shouldn't be letting him keep any pictures." Me: "You're being extremely disrespectful to me & my husband right now. You're a guest in this house. Walk back those comments & apologize, now." Sis: "Why should I apologize? How can you let him keep pictures of an ex-fucktoy?" I never knew his first wife, but I know how much she meant to him. I know how much he loves *me*. My sister talking about her like that insulted him, & by extension me - not to mention how disrespectful she was being to a poor woman who died young. I said: "Get your crap and leave." I didn't care that it was November in MN, or that she didn't have anywhere else to go, or any money. She had been beyond disrespectful to me and my husband, over a single small photo. Me: "If you're worried about sleeping in your car this winter, you should've thought of that before insulting the people sheltering you." I made sure she was gone before my husband even got home. He was shocked when I told him what'd happened, since he'd always had a polite-neutral relationship with her. He thanked me for having his back. I got a call from my mom, telling me it was my responsibility to take care of my sister. I laughed and hung up. I've been asked by a few people how I could basically destroy my relationship with my sister over this, and have replied that she was the one who did so. AITA for how I handled this?

Anya Petrova
My pregnant girlfriend is throwing away my sentimental things and redecorating my home without asking
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My pregnant girlfriend is throwing away my sentimental things and redecorating my home without asking

Throwaway account bc she’s also on Reddit. I (29M) have been with my girlfriend (24F) for 2 years now. We have not lived together before, but she’s currently 18 weeks pregnant so I suggested that she move in with me once her lease was up. It ended at the end of June, so she’s been living with me for almost 3 weeks now. While we get along well and overall living together has been great, I’ve noticed that she’s started to change things around my apartment. She only brought a few things over since my apartment is fully furnished so I understand her need to make it feel more like her space. Everything in my apartment is mid century modern, it’s a mid century modern building and I bought the apartment because of how much I love that style. Some of the things that she’s suggesting or bringing into the apartment absolutely does not go with that vibe. She’s taken down some of my artwork and replaced it, cleared off shelves I curated and put her knickknacks on it, went through my pantry and cleared out things she thought were unhealthy, all without asking me. She works from home while I work in the office so she has a lot more time at the apartment than I do. I just wish she would run things by me first. I’m an architect, she’s an editor and doesn’t have that same designer eye which clearly shows. What really bothered me was that she started to throw some things away without asking. I went to take out the trash and saw that some birthday cards I kept were in there. When I asked about it, she said she was just getting rid of “clutter” but her stuff is more like clutter and mine has actual sentimental value. I told her to stop touching things in the apartment and she pointed out that she should have a say because she lives there which I agree with but she doesn’t run anything by me. Now she’s being very avoidant and passive aggressive. So, AITA?

Anya Petrova
My boyfriend is forcing me to give up the only thing I can drink and I'm dehydrating
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My boyfriend is forcing me to give up the only thing I can drink and I'm dehydrating

I (26F) have been drinking diluted summer fruits juice all my life because I hate drinking water. When I do try drinking water I physically wretch due to the anxiety it gives me trying to drink it. So I stay hydrated by drinking diluted cordial. When I met my current partner (34M, let's call him Jim) I was drinking 30% cordial 70% water, which I admit now was strong. About 6 months into my relationship with Jim, he confessed he didn't like me drinking the juice because it made my breath smell bad (of the juice), it stopped me trying new foods and it stopped us from travelling cheap because we would have to pay for baggage just so I can take the juice on holiday. He even compared it to an addiction and how he was able to quit smoking so I can quit this. We decided to compromise and 1 year later I had reduced it down to 5% cordial. I was able to take my juice in mini aeroplane bottles and I had to admit I was tasting food better. However Jim was still not happy and we keep getting into fights about how 'disgusting' it is and it is putting him off wanting to kiss me. I can't even have other fruit flavoured drinks because Jim says it smells and tastes too similar. So I tried to give it up for him. It has been a month of attempting to drink sugar water. I am getting panic attacks and dehydrated because I'm not drinking enough. I am considering going back to the cordial because of this but I am worried I'd be letting myself and Jim down.

Clara Jensen
Husband forgot my birthday and invited his friends over to hookah instead of celebrating with me
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Husband forgot my birthday and invited his friends over to hookah instead of celebrating with me

So, my birthday is today and I haven’t seen my husband all day. I’m 29 weeks pregnant and had an early morning appointment I had to go to his morning and by the time I got home he left for work. I thought he would have something planned for tonight when he got home but he texted me and said “he can my friends come over tonight”. Which made me mad because it’s my birthday so why would you friends come over, clearly you don’t plan on doing anything with me and you haven’t seen me all day. He says I’m mad for no reason. His friends come over twice a week, normally at 10 pm and stay til 6 am. I’m upset because he has no birthday gift for me, says he ordered edible arrangements but they left my order at the store and so they are just gonna refund him his money. So I thought he’d do something tonight for me. He then says he will get me cake and then two seconds later text “so awkward but my friends didn’t get my text about how they can’t come over and they already purchased everything for the hookah. What do you want to do”. Now I’m mad again because what was the point of this long conversation. Just to bring up your friends again and ask me what I want to do. AITA for being mad about this situation?

Elise Dubois
AITA for helping my sister walk when everyone thinks she is exaggerating?
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AITA for helping my sister walk when everyone thinks she is exaggerating?

Hello, I am 18F and my sister 12F has been complaining of body aches for a week now--she says all of her legs hurt in different places at different times + back hurts + head hurts, with ears getting blocked + hands as well. It really seems like her whole body is nothing but a ball of pain. How I help her walk is that I let her put her arm around my shoulders, while her available arm grips onto my arm. It seems to genuinely hurt her to stand, and she starts flopping even while trying to stand straight without hurt. The issue seems to be that sometimes she says that it hurts to simply lift her leg on the bed, whereas other times she does that without issue, and also twists in her sleep. (My father saw this through the camera-- she was moving around throughout her sleep.) We went to the doctor finally today, and he also seemed to agree that there was nothing too wrong. No arthritis in the blood report, nothing obviously wrong. He is my father's friend, I think? All this, and her general upbeat nature when she is sitting and playing with our cousin, has solidified our family's belief in the fact that she is faking. They think that the idea that she will get hurt and fall down is making her not put effort into trying to walk, and me being beside her ready to help is not helping. My father in particular has said all sorts of hurtful things, such as how she is faking to get attention from ME, that it's 2001% my fault, etc. He also did this very frustrating thing where he mocked the way that my sister screams when she tries to walk. (She scrunches up her face and screams "ahhh" or "ooh" when it hurts, and sometimes my father just laughs? Once he held a cane and imitated the noises, saying "omg i am hurting so bad" while laughing.) I really don't want to leave her alone in the room with my parents only, I think they have been very frustrating in this situation, as described above, but not leaving when they tell me to seems to just get added to my laundry list of flaws in this situation. I did leave once, when she first complained, and I returned to her crying and asking me why I abandoned her. It breaks my hurt to see her like this. She cries very often due to how much it hurts, due to not feeling stable when I try to make her hold me in a way my parents and relatives think is better. It seems like if I follow their instructions, I am betraying my sister. But I don't want to stunt her or hurt her, especially when the doctor also said her to just put in more effort to walk. Am I the asshole?

Elise Dubois
AITA for celebrating my birthday without my friends after they rescheduled around babysitters again?
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AITA for celebrating my birthday without my friends after they rescheduled around babysitters again?

I've (26F) been part of this friend group since college. We're close and consistently hang out and have friend game nights. The kicker? I'm the only person in the group without kids. Everyone else is busy raising toddlers and infants! While it seems fair that they've been putting on more and more "adults only" events - fancy dinners, wine tastings, and events - great right? Um... no. The adults only events are literally during times that I'm working my restaurant shifts (evenings/weekends) because those are the times their babysitters are available. I've expressed multiple times that it would be great to have daytime events or meet during the week to do things since my schedule is very flexible during the day. They always say, "oh we'll try that for the next time", but it never happens. Last month was the last straw. My birthday fell on a Sunday, and I asked them if we could do a celebration during the day since I was working that night, and they agreed. Then the day before my celebration the group chat exploded that they were actually now changing it to evening because "Sarah's babysitter cancelled but can do 7pm instead". I was so done at that point. I made my own plans for my birthday with my coworkers who were able to show up and post pictures on social media having the best time at brunch and escaping an escape room. Now my original friend group is hurt that I "didn't even tell them" we changed the plans. They are now calling me petty and that I should understand that finding childcare is hard, but I'm ovèr being the only one who is expected to accommodate everyone else 100% of the time. But I think my job counts as an adult responsibility too and I shouldn't have to miss my own birthday for their babysitter problems.

Jonas Bergström
Teenager Scolded For Not Reacting To Half-Sister's Party Celebrating Parents' Divorce
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Teenager Scolded For Not Reacting To Half-Sister's Party Celebrating Parents' Divorce

My parents announced two months ago that they're getting divorced. I (16f) did kinda see it coming but it still makes me sad. My half sister (25f) has been celebrating ever since she heard. She cheered when our dad told her. She has gloated in my mom's and my faces. She told mom she can forget about being a part of her life or going to her wedding now, half sister is engaged. My half sister always hated that dad remarried after her mom died, when she was 5, and she said she never wanted to have my mom or me around. She was always praying for the end of the marriage. She used to try and break them up in the past. Dad would get so mad and frustrated with her but she never let the dream die and now her dream has come true. The last time mom or I saw my half sister was when dad was moving out. She stopped by briefly and she gloated so hard. This was also when she told mom she was no longer invited to the wedding and no longer going to be a part of her life. My mom was upset. Despite my half sister's dislike of her and constant disrespect, my mom loves her and she's sad to see it all end before they had a chance to be even friends. Though my mom always wanted to be family to my half sister. My maternal aunt saw my sister had posted on social media a party she threw and it turned out she was celebrating the divorce. My parents were upset. I could shrug it off because I knew she'd be so happy about this and her celebration does not surprise me at all. But my parents asked me why I'm so calm and collected about this. I told them I expected her reaction and I always knew she wanted this badly. They said they would expect me to be upset. I told them maybe if I expected different from her but I didn't. I pointed out that everyone in her comments knew too. There were loads about how she always called it and how glad they were she got this win. To me it's so dumb. My aunt confronted me afterward and told me I should be making a bigger deal out of it because it looks like I don't care about the weird and over the top reaction from my half sister. She said mom must feel like I don't care about her heartache at all. That it's rough to see a child she loved and helped raise cheer on the fact she's getting divorced from dad. AITA?

Jonas Bergström
AITA for leaving a dental appointment and leaving a "mean" review on every site humanly possible after the way I was treated?
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AITA for leaving a dental appointment and leaving a "mean" review on every site humanly possible after the way I was treated?

I have purging disorder. It's like bulimia but no binge. I'm 25 and started getting help which was hard because everyone associates throwing up with bulimia (or worse "bulemia" and "bullemia") and gets dismissive. I've been purge free for the first time since I was 10. I hadn't been to a dentist since I was 12. Well obviously, my teeth are fucked. Now when I made the appointment I was clear that it's been a long time since I'd been to a dentist and have an eating disorder, and asked if I could schedule with a kind dentist because it was already scary for me. They said of course, they understand. When I had the appointment...that's not what happened. The person who started the cleaning and exam was very rough and as soon as she got into it she made this long deep sigh and said "Let me guess, you're bulimic?" I started to say "No, I have purging disorder" and she cut me off as soon as I said no and said something like "Please don't lie to me. It's not going to help you or me. We're going to have to (bunch of stuff I don't remember/understand." I said "No, you don't understand. I don't have bulimia, I have--" she cut me off and said "It doesn't matter. You have severe enamel erosion, several of your teeth have X and Y." I said "IT'S PURGING DISORDER" because I thought if I said "no" again she would catapult me. She said "Okay, sure, "purging disorder"" with air quotes and rolled her eyes. I'm not proud of it but I started to cry because it was already so anxiety-inducing for me. She got annoyed and took off her gloves, threw them away, and said she would be back when I calmed down. Instead of calming down, I just got my things and left without paying anything. I cried in my car but shook it off and ended up going home. When I got home I was still really upset and so I started writing reviews left and right about the situation. I think I left one on like 7 sites. About two weeks later, I got a call. It was someone from that dental practice who had matched my name with my appointment and was wanted to discuss my reviews and how I was obviously very upset, but was leaving those reviews really necessary. I said yes, it was, to prevent anyone else from having the same humiliating experience. She argued with me that it wasn't going to change anything or fix my teeth. I lied and said that I had already seen another dentist who had managed to treat me with dignity and respect and hung up. On the sites you can reply to reviews, someone responded to me and tried to pretend they worked with me to figure it out. I've talked about this in my therapy group and with friends. A bunch of people are telling me I'm wrong because 1-star reviews can really hurt small businesses and how it's not their fault they aren't trained better, but I shouldn't take it out on them. I don't know. I think people need to know. AITA? Is it really that bad?

Elise Dubois
WIBTA if I left a nasty review for a place that didn’t treat our nanny well?
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WIBTA if I left a nasty review for a place that didn’t treat our nanny well?

I'm signed up for a local toddler group in my community. We pay a yearly membership fee and each month, a different class is offered (music, art, yoga, etc). The meeting times are every 2nd Thursday of the month from 10am-11:30am. I work during this time but my daughter is home with our nanny. Today was the first class and I'm disgusted at how our nanny was treated. According to nanny this is how things went down: At the beginning of class they had everyone go around and introduce themselves and their kid. Our nanny obviously identified herself as little one's nanny and that's when things went sour. She said the leader looked surprised and said “oh are there any other nannies in here?” Everyone else was a mom so our nanny felt singled out. First strike. Then later they have some free time towards the end where the kids were just playing with each other. The leader approaches our nanny and says this is ||.....👇

Clara Jensen
Family Issues A Ban On Birthdays After The Death Of A Loved One But Finds Resistance With Their Son-In-Law Who Insisted On Celebrating His Daughter's First Birthday
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Family Issues A Ban On Birthdays After The Death Of A Loved One But Finds Resistance With Their Son-In-Law Who Insisted On Celebrating His Daughter's First Birthday

Eversince my brother passed away at the age of 17 on his birthday, My family decided to never celebrate birthdays ever again. It was mom & dad's decision; but because of how much the family loved my brother, extended family decided to do the same and stand in agreement with this decision. My husband would refuse to follow this decision, and kept celebrating his birthday. Me and the family didn't say a thing about it since he's not blood family. But when I first got pregnant, the argument about celebrating our daughter's birthdays occured. My family adviced me to just not celebrate her birthday since she's a baby and won't even remember anyway. I agreed but my husband threw a fit and insisted that we celebrate our daughter's 1st birthday. I caved in eventually but told him we'd have a small, secret celebration so that my family wouldn't find out. The next day, I got a call from mom and she was so upset saying that my word meant nothing and that I have no respect for my brother's memory nor the family. I asked what she meant and she told me she saw the birthday party pics my husband posted on social media. I was to shocked to even argue. I hung up and went straight to my husband to confront him about it. He got defensive and said that he didn't need my permission to post pics, and that he wanted to show his family the birthday celebration pics since I "insisted" we have a small, secret party and "exclude" them. I explained to him how this made me look bad and a liar to my family but he said "they can get over it" and called my mom "snooby". I blew up at him and we had a huge fight about it. He started sulking later and said I ruined the memory of our daughter's first birthday for him and "verbally abused" him with how I lashed out. But I solely did it out of frusrtation knowing that what happened caused a massive problem between me and family. Now he's expecting an apology from me. AITA?

Luca Moretti
AITA for leaving a bad review after my cake order was canceled and u was reimbursed with a grocery store gift card?
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AITA for leaving a bad review after my cake order was canceled and u was reimbursed with a grocery store gift card?

So there is a woman in our community who has a home bakery and she decorates cakes. I contacted her in November about making a cake for my mother's 60th birthday in January. We confirmed the design and flavor as well as the price and date. We spoke again 3 weeks prior to confirm all details and I paid her the $100 she requested. The night before my mother's birthday she confirmed my cake would be ready by supper time. This morning she messaged me and told me that she was unable to obtain the main cake topper because, as she claimed, her friend who's store was making it for her, decided not to come in to work that day and she wanted to know what I wanted to do. I asked her if she could improvise something and asked asked how much of the cake was ready and how far in to it she was so we could figure out what to do for the design. To clarify, I ordered a chocolate cake with chocolate chunks made to look like a record player with a Queen album on top. The item whe couldn't get was the print of the album cover to put on the record. I thought maybe she could just write the word Queen and maybe make a simple drawing or something. She never responded about the cake or acknowledged that I still wanted it. Instead she responded saying "I don't do refunds except for Sobeys (a grocery store) gifts cards so you can see if they can make the cake for you." I told her I can't get to Sobeys today and asked if she can't give me my money back could I at least get a visa or Mastercard gift card so I could get to Dairy Queen or another closer store but she said no and refused to negotiate despite the fact that I didn't cancel the order and was prepared to give her creative license over the design. I got the gift card from her, which was clearly something she had gotten for Christmas and not something she had as compensation for clients. I ended up selling it for $80 so that I could but a simple cake from Dairy Queen and we left her a bad but honest review. Now she is upset and can't understand why we aren't satisfied. The fact is, of she had already gotten the ingredients and was working on the cake she wouldn't have just abandoned the project at the last minute and offered a refund. As her own mother said on Facebook, basically you forgot and had no money to pay her back. I don't know of she really forgot, because she had spoken to me the day before but she clearly either couldn't or didn't want to make that cake today. She feels since she gave me a gift card for the value of the cake that the issue is resolved and we shouldn't be upset. We feel she handled the situation badly and deserved the bad review on her page. Are we wring or should we take down or reviews? Edit: UPDATE! The gift card she gave me was empty. I contacted her and she initially blocked my. I then posted to her company page which prompted her to messge me saying she gave the wrong gift card and to come get the right one. I told her to sell it and give me my money. The said "I'll send you $90and that's it because you're family caused me too much trouble." And told me to leave her alone after that. My son just got turned away at rhe cash because out card declined and we had to use our credit card. She insisting I take the gift card or $90 cash. I'm looking in to small claims court now

Luca Moretti
AITA for reiterating my house rules to my in-laws
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AITA for reiterating my house rules to my in-laws

My husband and I take our shoes off in our house. Every time my mother-in-law has visited our house she has found a way to walk through the house in her shoes. She is not just forgetting--she is making conscious decisions (I won't go into detail, but it's not just forgetfulness). The last time she was in our house was 2 years ago Thanksgiving. She purposefully walked through the living room in shoes. She hasn't been back to our house due to the pandemic, but even before COVID I was adamant with my husband that I would have a serious discussion with her before she could come in again. The in-laws want to come for Thanksgiving this year. I sent them a message reiterating that they need to follow this house rule or we will be meeting them in hotels and AirBnBs from now on. Here's an excerpt (included since tone is important): "I have to remind everyone that we take our shoes off in the house. No exceptions. That means every single time, you wear shoes outside, no shoes inside. I will have a chair by the door so you can sit to put your shoes off and on. 99{39ca6eb452c0ce4419cd73a8f3bd18a23fe95ab4febb092bc2ab1b542eeea82f} of our guests respect this rule, and I hope I can have a stress-free Thanksgiving knowing that my guests respect the one house rule that I ask them to follow. Last Thanksgiving we hosted, I felt I had to be constantly vigilant, and that is stressful and means that I don't enjoy the holiday with my in-law family. I hope to have a peaceful, stress-free holiday, and that we can continue to invite guests into our home. If not, we will need to meet people who wear shoes in our home at Air BnBs and hotels, and not in our home." They told my husband they feel unwelcome now. Husband and brother-in-law say I was abrasive and aggressive. I was genuinely trying to assert my house rules without being mean. I do struggle with expressing myself and I do want a respectful relationship with my MIL. AITA? Edit: It's not for a few hours or one day. They have to drive 2 days to visit us, so they stay with us over several days for Thanksgiving. She doesn't have a medical issue that prohibits her from taking off her shoes. I know about her medical issues. I have reminded her repeatedly over 13 years, but I can't watch her 24/7. She enjoys sneaking ways to walk in the house with her sneakers on, or outside in her socks an dthen wear the socks inside ("What? I don't have my shoes on."). Yes my husband should have brought this up. Why do I want a relationship with her? Because she's family? Some people even said they would divorce me over this. Wow. Second edit: UPDATE. After I got off work I called my in-laws. MIL picked up, and she wanted to talk with my kid and not address the issue, but she handed the phone to FIL and he and I talked about it. He said, "She's just the kind of person who sometimes is going to do what you tell her, but sometimes she's going to ... forget." I said, "I'm not hearing 'Sorry it won't happen again', so let's get a hotel or an AirBnB for Thanksgiving." He was excited for the AirBnB--we got an affordable cabin in the woods. We're all going to meet there. It's definitely more expensive, but I will have a much better time because I don't care if she wears shoes in the AirBnB (unless that's the house rule there!).

Jonas Bergström
AITA for leaving a bad review on a diner and ruining the waitress' life just because she was "complementing" my husband's eyes?
Relationships

AITA for leaving a bad review on a diner and ruining the waitress' life just because she was "complementing" my husband's eyes?

My f33 husband's m30 birthday was several days ago, we decided to go celebrate at a new diner and invited my inlaws to join us. Throughtout the entire celebration, this 20ish waitress who served our table kept acting strange, she didn't take her eyes off my husband and threw some inappropriate comments at him and infront of us as she came and went. I was feeling uncomfortable, but decided to not make a scene hoping she'd stop but when she brought the drinks, She puts them on the table, leans close enough towards my husband thinking no one would hear but we heard what she said and it was "the sparkle of those eyes is igniting me!" (PS my husband has electric-blue eyes). I was flabergasted, truly! I couldn't believe she just said that! I told her "you know what? You're being inappropriate right now, and you need to stop". She then smug smiled then turned around and walked away. I got weird looks from my inlaws and it was AWEFUL. I got home and left a very bad review on the diner, the next day I'm contacted by the manager asking me to specify the bad experience I had at their diner and I tell him. He then calls back and tells me their business is new and this kind of reviews might harm their reputation, then asks what it'd take for me to take it down. I tell him some consequences to the waitress. He calls back to tell me he just fired her but before I take down the review, I'm contacted by the waitress on my SM telling me that she didn't mean to cause disturbance and was just "complimenting" my husband's eyes, but I ruined her career and caused her to potentially lose her apartment and become homeless after getting fired from the diner and being unable to pay rent. I don't respond but my inlaws point out that I overreacted and this stuff happen too often at diners and I just caused irreparable damage to this young lady's life over "nothing". Also MIL said that I must've done this because I felt jealous of the waitress. AITA? ETA: My review was left on the business' facebook page. I was contacted by the manager via my phone number that was available on my profile. But the waitress reached out via message. ETA2: So I'm seeing a variety of opinions here of what I should have done/or how I should have handled this. I agree that I might have let things get out of hand but I had no plans to get her fired, didn't even want to get the manager involved. Just leave a review and that's it. Also to all those asking "insecure/jealous much?" I'll give you the same answer I gave my MIL, I might have been BUT I just don't think that this was an appropriate way to act at work. That is all!

Anya Petrova
AITA for telling my husband to get over himself when he started berating me for not picking up his brother's son from school?
Family

AITA for telling my husband to get over himself when he started berating me for not picking up his brother's son from school?

My husband (37) took his nephew (12) in after his dad (my husband's brother) was diagnosed with cancer. He told me that his nephew would be staying with us til his dad completes his chemo treatment. I agreed although he did not consult me about it first. but I told him that he'll be his responsibilty not mine. He asked me to explain why and I told him it's because 1. he didn't consult me before taking his nephew in, and 2. I'm not equiped nor experienced in taking care/being committed to child care. I still have to cook and clean obviously. He said it was fine and that he'd be taking care of him on his own. The other day he called me in afternoon saying he was stuck in a 2hr meeting and asked if I could go pick his nephew up from school. I said I was having lunch with mom and discussing family issues. He insisted but I reminded him that he said he'd be taking care of his nephew including school pickup/dropoff. I suggested he try to get off work or call some family member to go pick him up. He tried to argue but I hung up. I went home at 3 and surprisingly found my husband there. He was angry he started yelling at me calling me selfish and unfeeling. I told him that his lack of mamagement wasn't my fault. he yelled saying that my lunch with mom could've "fucking" waited but I chose to be "fucking petty" just to prove a point. I said that wasn't true and told him to get over himself and stop acting like he was the victim when he put himself in this situation knowing he wouldn't commit. He yelled that ge was trying to do all he can to help his brother out but it was me who's playing victim after I refused to help out. We argued some more and I ended up going to stay with my mom for the night. He texted me some choice words that's when I turned my phone off. We're still arguing about it.

Clara Jensen
AITA for mentioning the security camera in a review of an AirBnB?
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AITA for mentioning the security camera in a review of an AirBnB?

I stayed at an AirBnB while on a road trip to move across the county (we did not want to fly during a global pandemic and this place was heavily disinfected in between guests). When my fiancé and I arrived we were surprised to find security cameras in the kitchen and living room. I assumed that having a security camera would be against AirBnB’s policy but apparently they allow security cameras only if they are clearly visible, located in common areas, and disclosed to guests before booking. Upon reviewing the listing, we did see that they had disclosed that there would be security cameras, but the information was buried at the bottom of the page and it wasn’t clear that the cameras were INSIDE the AirBnB. We had a good stay otherwise, but the security cameras made us feel uncomfortable. I’m aware this feeling isn’t totally rational but it did negatively impact our experience. I’m sure the hosts don’t spend all of their time watching the cameras but it did make us feel like we were being watched. This was reflected in our review. We gave them five stars, wrote about all the great things about their place, and in the last sentence said “There were security cameras in the kitchen and living room”. Only one other review out of hundreds mentioned it and I thought prospective guests who would also be made uncomfortable by security cameras should be warned. However, after I posed my review the host contacted me and expressed that she thought I should not have mentioned the cameras in my review. It was not my intention to hurt her business but my feelings are that if its AirBnB’s policy that the cameras be disclosed then it shouldn’t be an issue for me to mention it in the review. AITA?

Anya Petrova
AITAH for giving my daughter’s teacher a low rating because of her comment on my daughter’s “modesty”?
Movie Reviews

AITAH for giving my daughter’s teacher a low rating because of her comment on my daughter’s “modesty”?

My daughter (14F) recently wore a sleeveless top and skirt (within dress code) to school. That night, we got a message from her homeroom teacher saying: “Just a heads up, some more modest clothing might help her avoid unwanted attention.” That was it. No concern about rules, no behavioral issues, just... that. I was furious. I emailed the school principal and left a scathing parent portal review for the teacher, flagging the comment as inappropriate and borderline victim-blamey. Now other parents in the PTA group chat are saying I “overreacted” and that she’s “an old-school type who meant well.” My daughter is embarrassed and said the teacher pulled her aside to say, “Your mom made a big deal out of nothing.” Did I go too far? AITAH for standing up for my daughter?

Elise Dubois